If you see adharma in the world, in some instances it is wiser not to fight it...

If you see adharma in the world, in some instances it is wiser not to fight it. The criterion being if there is no hope of wisdom dawning in the other party through this action.

Slowly you will become more friendly with vyAsa and VasiShTha. Your consciousness will ascend. Problems of bhUloka will not trouble you as before. You will transcend your desires of wealth, wife, and  progeny in bhUloka, of the offerings in pitR loka, of desire of sense pleasure in deva loka, of dharma and veda and tapas in tapaloka. Then you will consort with the trimUrti. They will teach you how to go beyond.

First give up adhArmic desires.

First give up adhArmic desires.

Then you have to give up even dhArmic desires!

Such as fulfilling the role of a father etc.

Then give up all samkalpas.

Even dasharatha had to suffer greatly...

Even dasharatha had to suffer greatly by witnessing the adharma done to rAma by kaikeyi on account of his foolish lust and delusion under which he gave her boons. Indeed, desire is the downfall of many a virtuous man who even momentarily succumbs to lust for a woman and falls into the pit of delusion like a majestic tusker.